One Size Does Not Fit All

Becoming The Best You

Sister! Girl.

The last time we talked, we agreed to discuss ways to become your best self, but baby, when I sat down to put thoughts on paper, not a single damn sentence would come to mind. When I say nothing, I mean NO-THING. 😩

I felt like the screen was staring back at me, saying, “Do you see me? Because girl, I see you!”

In that moment, I realized something: God designed each of us in such a special way that your best self can only be a byproduct of what you know about YOU!

But hold on, chile. Just because I can’t tell you exactly what to do doesn’t mean I can’t give prompts—life prompts, if you will—to help point you in the right direction. Let me cook, ok? :)

Here's what I suggest:

1. Define It for Yourself

Get specific and clear on exactly what becoming your best self means to YOU.

My girlfriend wakes up at roughly 4 AM to spend time with God. 🙌🏽 She and I both agree that studying God’s word is a vital part of personal development, right? But that 4 AM club ain’t my ministry!!!

I had to define that thing for myself! LOL.

This leads me to my next point. 👇🏽

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2. Nurture Your Spirituality

Listen. There aren’t too many ways to tell you this, so I’ll hold your hand while I say it ✋🏽—girl, you HAVE to know your Creator. Point blank and the period.

Pray, meditate, ugly cry before Him —baby, do something but spend time in His presence, ok?

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3. Take Care of Your Body

Move. 🏃🏽‍♀️ Eat well. If you’re married, have a lot of sex. Just kidding. Ok, maybe not, but you get the point. Nurture your relationship—is that better? 😅 Rest, manage your stress, and listen to your body.

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Here’s what I need you take away from this read: there is no universal formula that works for everyone. The goal is to find things that resonate with your values, your aspirations, and your version of fulfillment. Please, get busy living your best life—time will not wait!

I love you, girl. I’m cheering for you.

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